Some of us don’t want quirky best friends, airport chases, or misunderstandings resolved over a grand gesture in the rain. Some of us want yearning. Silence. Missed chances. Love that lingers in glances rather than gags.

If you’re someone who prefers intense romantic dramas over sugary rom-coms, this list of best romance films to watch if you hate rom-coms is for you. These stories don’t flirt with love – they sit with it. They ache with it.

Here are the ones I always go back to when I want to feel something real.

1. Veer-Zaara

There’s something devastatingly sincere about Veer-Zaara. It isn’t just a cross-border love story – it’s about patience, dignity, and a love that refuses to expire.

2. Barfi!

Barfi! is proof that romance doesn’t need grand declarations. Sometimes it’s found in shared silences and imperfect timing.

The tenderness in this film melts me every time. It celebrates flawed, unconventional love without making it feel like a social lesson. There’s innocence, yes – but there’s also complexity. The characters love in ways that are messy, human, and quietly brave.

3. Ae Dil Hai Mushkil

Unrequited love is rarely explored with honesty, but this film leans straight into it. If you’ve ever loved someone who saw you only as a friend, this one will hit harder than you expect.

4. Aashiqui 2

This isn’t a romance about falling in love. It’s about what happens after.

Addiction, insecurity, self-sabotage – it shows how love can both heal and destroy. What I appreciate is that it doesn’t glamorise pain. It shows the cost of loving someone who is fighting their own demons.

It’s heavy. But sometimes the most powerful romantic dramas are.

5. Before Sunrise

One train. One city. One night.

That’s it.

Before Sunrise feels almost intrusive – like you’re eavesdropping on two strangers who connect in a way that feels frighteningly rare. There are no villains, no dramatic plot turns. Just conversation. Curiosity. Chemistry.

It captures the kind of fleeting romance that exists outside reality – the “what if” that lives in your head for years afterwards.

6. Dum Laga Ke Haisha

This one quietly dismantles superficial ideas of romance.

It’s about compatibility, respect, and the slow burn of understanding. There’s no instant chemistry here. Instead, there’s awkwardness, ego clashes, and gradual acceptance. 

It shows Romance doesn’t always begin with butterflies. Sometimes it begins with maturity.

7. Lootera

If longing had a colour, it would look like this film.

Set against a hauntingly beautiful backdrop, Lootera explores betrayal and forgiveness in the gentlest way possible. What stays with me is the quiet transformation – how pain softens into understanding.

8. Raanjhanaa

Obsession dressed up as devotion – that’s what makes this film unsettling.

It portrays one-sided love without sugar-coating its consequences. The intensity feels raw and, at times, uncomfortable. But that discomfort is the point. It asks whether persistence is romantic – or selfish.

9. Atonement

Few romantic dramas capture regret as painfully as this one.

It’s sweeping and visually stunning, yes – but beneath that beauty lies miscommunication, class tension, and the devastating weight of a single mistake. Love here isn’t just about passion. It’s about timing. And the tragedy of getting it wrong.

It’s one of those films that leaves you quiet, long after the credits roll.

10. Kal Ho Naa Ho

This one still hurts.

At its core, it’s about loving someone enough to step aside. It explores friendship, joy, grief, and the idea that sometimes love means letting someone else be happy – even if it breaks you.

If you’re tired of glossy rom-coms and craving romance films with emotional depth, flawed characters, and love that feels earned rather than engineered – start here.

Because sometimes, the best love stories aren’t the happiest ones… they’re the ones that feel the most real.

Now tell me, which romantic drama has stayed with you the longest?

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Welcome to the internet before algorithms, when going online felt less like entering a surveillance mall and more like stumbling into a chaotic, delightful bazaar.

In those days, logging in was an event. The shrill song of dial-up was our national anthem. If someone picked up the landline, your digital life collapsed. Romance was fragile like that. Take Yahoo! Chat, for instance. It wasn’t a ‘platform.’ It was a social experiment. You entered chat rooms named “India Friendship” or “Kolkata Masti,” armed with nothing but an embarrassing username like cool_dude_420. You didn’t have profile pictures; you had mystery. You didn’t swipe; you typed “asl?” and waited like it was a visa interview.

Then came Orkut, the sacred scrapbook of our adolescence. Testimonials were public declarations of loyalty. “…………. is a very sweet person and a good friend” was practically a character certificate. You could rank your friends. Imagine the audacity today. Your crush lived in your “Crush List,” and your enemies were demoted silently. Communities like “I Hate Maths” or “Rajma Chawal Lovers” united the nation long before hashtags tried.

Festivals were incomplete without 123Greetings. Animated roses, glitter fonts, and MIDI music declared your affection with all the subtlety of a wedding band. If someone sent you a Diwali e-card at 12:01 AM, you knew you mattered. It took effort. It took intention. It took patience for the page to load.

Indian portals like Sify and Rediff.com were our digital newspapers, gossip columns, cricket scoreboards, and agony aunts rolled into one. Rediff’s comment sections were the original Twitter wars, unfiltered, passionate, occasionally unhinged. Sify chat rooms were where friendships brewed over painfully slow connections and even slower typing speeds.

We downloaded songs from Indiatimes, songs.pk and checked exam results on clunky university websites that crashed under collective anxiety, and forwarded chain mails promising good luck or imminent doom. 

We played Flash games on Miniclip and customized our desktops with suspicious wallpapers from random sites that probably gave the family computer three new viruses. The beauty of it all? Discovery was accidental. You found websites because a friend scribbled them on the last page of your notebook. Virality meant someone physically telling you, “Arre, check this site!”

There were no creators strategizing hooks. No one optimized nostalgia for engagement. We wrote blogs on Blogger like secret diaries, not content calendars. We refreshed pages not for dopamine, but because the page genuinely hadn’t loaded yet.

Life before algorithms was slower, messier, and infinitely more surprising. The internet did not curate your desires; you wandered into them. It did not mirror your biases; it challenged them in poorly spelled chat messages. It was not efficient; it was alive.

And perhaps that’s why we remember it not as a tool, but as a feeling.

What is happening now because of the algorithm?

We can see that now the parents are encouraging the children to make content on social media platforms. Now, kids are getting their own phone before even making it into college or passing their 10th exams. Also, because of these Content creation children are leaning more towards getting more likes and reach. Now, these things have become their day-to-day routine, and in some content they got less views, they got upset or became depressed.

Let us know your take on this, we might create part 2! 

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Our emotional intelligence didn’t come from podcasts; it came from dramatic zoom-ins, background violins, canned laughter, and monologues delivered with suspiciously perfect lighting.

Let’s be honest,  we weren’t just watching TV. We were being emotionally raised by it.

Friendships That Taught Us How To Feel,  Friends & Hip Hip Hurray

If adulthood had a manual, Friends was it. Six dysfunctional humans teaching us how to fight without ending friendships. How love is messy, confusing, and occasionally involves yelling “WE WERE ON A BREAK!” How a chosen family is sometimes stronger than biological chaos. Every awkward apology, every heartbreak, every ridiculous misunderstanding – emotional education disguised as comedy.

On the Indian side, Hip Hip Hurray quietly did the same. No over-the-top drama, just real teenage anxieties, peer pressure (before the words became clìched), first crushes, identity confusions, and friendship politics. It understood teenage emotions without treating them like a national emergency. 

Family Dynamics & Emotional Drama,  Full House & Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi

Full House gave us warm hugs wrapped in life lessons. Every episode was basically, ‘Kids mess up → gentle music → heart-to-heart talk → emotional growth.’ It taught patience, empathy, forgiveness, the OG soft skills syllabus, but on the TV. 

Meanwhile, Indian households were emotionally surviving Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi. Sure, it had dramatic rebirths and suspiciously immortal characters (of course, we still find it cringe), but beneath the theatrics, loyalty, betrayal, forgiveness, and complex family relationships shaped a big part of the sanskari millennials. Tulsi crying became our cardio. But it also taught us emotional endurance. No one processed grief like Indian serial characters.

Vulnerability & Growing Up, The Wonder Years & Shaktimaan

The Wonder Years was emotional introspection before journaling became trendy. Kevin Arnold’s narration taught us that feelings are confusing, growing up is weird, and nostalgia hurts in a strangely beautiful way. It gave us emotional reflection, a rare gift.

And then came Shaktimaan, India’s OG moral compass in spandex. Yes, superhero, but also some honesty, responsibility, consequences of choices, and a major “Galtiyaan insaan se hoti hain” wisdom. Shaktimaan didn’t just fight villains; he fought our poor decision-making skills (where we are still failing, I guess).

Handling Conflict & Chaos, Everybody Loves Raymond & Sarabhai vs Sarabhai

Everybody Loves Raymond taught us something vital: Conflict ≠ End of Love. Marriage, family irritation, and passive-aggressive warfare all stand as normal.

Emotional intelligence via sarcasm is what Indian Television brought. Sarabhai vs Sarabhai arrived like elite comedic therapy (and still serves the purpose for those who can buy 10 pizzas, but can’t afford therapy). Old TV Shows: Generational differences, ego clashes, insecurity, class satire, all delivered with wit sharp enough to slice family tension. Indravadan Sarabhai taught us emotional survival through humour. A national service (still performing better than your SIP)

Without saying ‘emotional intelligence’, these shows trained us in empathy, conflict resolution, vulnerability, patience, resilience, and the art of laughing at life’s absurdity

They didn’t preach. They performed emotions loudly until we understood them.

Today, we binge-watch content. Back then, content binge-watched us into better humans.

Because if the 90s taught us anything, it’s this:

Feel everything. Overreact occasionally. Forgive dramatically. And always respect the background music of your emotions.

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When did chocolates grow out of the ground in that iconic Cadbury Gems advert? When did the Vodafone pug become so famous that we genuinely called the breed “the Vodafone wala dog”? Or when “Bunty, tera sabun slow hai kya?” from Lifebuoy became less of a line and more of a life philosophy?

And how could anyone forget the gloriously ridiculous 5 Star campaigns that made absolutely no sense yet lived rent-free in our heads? Or the last memorable advert, “FOGG chal raha hai!”

Advertisements once felt like guests in our living rooms. Now, they feel like uninvited notifications, blinding flashes and chaos of trends chasing virality and relatablitity. In the current global capitalist work, ads are the new pollution and we are living amongst them- from billboards to buses, metros to mobile, shopping bags to cinema everything is marketing, or maybe just too much of everything.

So what changed?

The Era When We Waited for Ad Breaks

I grew up watching the Mahashay Dharampal Gulati uncle from MDH, smiling at us daily. I remember waiting for commercial breaks during films not to grab water – but to watch what would come next.

There was a certain rawness. A certain madness. A child holding up colourful Poppins saying “kya loge?” with dramatic flair. A cheeky Centre Fruit advert built entirely around awkward humour. A fizzy, mischievous Limca moment that made you crave both the drink and the vibe.

These adverts weren’t just selling products. They were selling moods, catchphrases, and inside jokes for an entire generation.

The Rise of Ad Blindness

Fast forward to today, and we have something called ad blindness.

People are not relating to ads anymore because we are overwhelmed. We scroll past sponsored posts without even reading them. We instinctively look for the “Skip Ad” button before the video even loads.

There are a few reasons behind this shift:

1. Overexposure:
 We don’t just see ads on television. We see them on YouTube, Instagram, websites, podcasts – even our food delivery apps. When everything is an advert, nothing feels special.

2. Algorithm Fatigue:
 Modern advertising is hyper-targeted. Yes, it’s clever. But when an advert follows you around the internet because you searched for one pair of shoes, it stops feeling magical and starts feeling mildly invasive.

3. Loss of Storytelling:
 Earlier, adverts felt like stories. Now, many feel like sales pitches wrapped in motivational background music. The quirkiness, the randomness, and the “what did I just watch?” factor have reduced.

4. Short Attention Spans:
 In the age of reels and 10-second content, brands are fighting for seconds. Depth often gets sacrificed for speed.

Nostalgia Is Winning (Thanks to Social Media)

Ironically, while we ignore modern adverts, we lovingly recreate old ones.

People lip-sync classic jingles. Meme pages recycle punchlines. Old chocolate ads trend again. Social media has become a museum of iconic advertising.

Why? Because those ads made us feel something.

They were imperfect. Slightly dramatic. Sometimes completely nonsensical. But they were memorable.

But now Why people skip ads?

So, Are Ads Really Failing – Or Are We Changing?

Maybe adverts haven’t entirely lost their charm. Maybe we’ve just grown up.

We’re more sceptical. More aware. More distracted.

But here’s what I believe: people will relate to ads again – the moment brands stop trying so hard to sell, follow a viral hook or chase a trend  and start trying to connect with people beyond the screens.

Bring back storytelling. Bring back weird humour. Bring back jingles that get stuck in our heads for no logical reason.

Because deep down, a part of us still misses waiting for the ad break.

We just don’t want to admit it, while hovering over “Skip”.

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Dear Delhi,

It’s that time of the year again, and I can’t help but fall in love with you all over. The streets shimmer with lights, little winter chills make me reach for my jacket, and somehow, everything feels cozy like the city is wrapping me in a warm, familiar hug. I’ve been here for three and a half years now, but my heart has been with you since I was a child visiting my masi on holidays. You were this thrilling, boundless city, full of tastes, noises, and options I had only heard of or seen on screen.

Having come from Agra, you always led the way – where else could I taste waffles, momos, and other trendy food for the first time? All new, all exciting, it all occurred here. And when I chose to move to this place for college, I had to battle tooth and nail with my parents, being an only child, leaving home wasn’t easy. But I knew I had to be here, because somewhere inside, I had always loved you.

Malviya Nagar, my little corner of you, has become my favourite place. My PG, the roads, the vibe, they all feel like home. And yes, my little ritual of sitting by myself with a cup of caramel coffee at NBC? That’s my favorite form of therapy. I haven’t seen everything of you yet and I don’t feel the rush, because I know I’m here for the long haul. Unlike a tourist counting sights, I am learning your soul slowly, bit by bit, day by day.

Delhi, you have transformed me. The reserved, unsure, introverted girl from Agra who didn’t know how to do things independently is no more. Now, I can dine alone, walk alone, stay alone, and truly have fun with myself. Yes, there are days that are quiet and a bit isolating, but I’ve never felt more alive, more like myself anywhere else. And truly, it’s because of you. You were my reason, my incentive to test limits, to venture into a life I never imagined could be mine.

You provided me with my first job, first paycheck, and most significantly, my own identity. The individuals I’ve encountered here, the discussions I’ve had, the sidewalks I’ve strolled, you’ve made me me. Even your polluted air feels like liberty, like potential. You’re a mess, wonderful, boisterous, noisy and beautiful all at the same time. You test me, you shock me, you soothe me. And in these small winter days, with lights flashing all around and the city buzzing with festive happiness, I simply want to inhale you, linger, and be here, fully.

Thank you, Delhi, for being everything I needed and more. For giving me space to grow, to stumble, to celebrate little victories, and to fall in love with life, with myself, and with you.

Forever your starry-eyed fan,
A girl hopelessly in love!

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Once upon a time, movies like Tamasha and Lootera came and went without much noise. Fast forward to 2025, and suddenly, your feed is full of cinematic reels, melancholic background scores, and captions like “we didn’t value this movie enough.” Thanks to the trend of Instagram revived movies, these underrated gems are finally getting their second innings. Here’s a look at the films that the internet is now collectively obsessed with the ones that were once “too deep” for their time but now define our digital nostalgia.

1. Tamasha 

Back in 2015, most of us left the cinema confused about Ved’s identity crisis. Now, every other reel uses Agar Tum Saath Ho or Matargashti to capture that post-quarter-life emotional burnout. We finally get it – Tamasha wasn’t confusing, we just hadn’t grown up enough to understand it.

2. Laila Majnu

When Laila Majnu was released, barely anyone watched it. Today, the same dialogues and chaos-filled scenes are all over Instagram edits. People now call it “the most underrated love story of our time.” Guess heartbreak just needed a filter and a slow-motion effect to make sense.

3. Masaan

It didn’t roar at the box office, but it whispered to souls. Years later, reels with Tu Kisi Rail Si Guzarti Hai play as people romanticise loneliness and healing. It’s no longer “too serious” – it’s real, raw, and painfully beautiful.

4. Lootera

No film has captured quiet love and loss quite like Lootera. Its visuals, once “too slow” for many, now fill aesthetic reels with quotes about healing, closure, and unspoken love. Maybe heartbreaks finally caught up with us.

5. October

When October was released, most people didn’t know what to make of it. Years later, Instagram’s melancholic corners found its beauty. Now, it’s hailed as the purest form of love – a kind that asks for nothing but stays anyway.

6. Meri Pyaari Bindu 

No one clapped in theatres, but now everyone’s crying in the comments. From Maana Ke Hum Yaar Nahin to Bindu’s messy charm, every reel feels like a love letter to all the almosts and could-have-beens.

7. Jab Harry Met Sejal – The misunderstood journey

Once mocked, now romanticised. Instagram edits have turned Harry and Sejal’s aimless wander into something existentially beautiful. Turns out, they weren’t lost – they were just looking for meaning, just like us.

Instagram might be chaotic, but it’s also poetic justice. The same app that once hyped fleeting trends is now giving emotional depth a second life through Instagram revived movies. These films didn’t change — we did. Maybe that’s why they finally make sense now, in an age where we’re all learning to slow down, feel deeply, and find meaning in the stories we once overlooked.

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Because love, in its purest form, isn’t built over candlelit dinners. It’s built on deciding what to order for dinner when both of you are too tired to cook. It’s built over figuring out whose turn it is to do laundry, or sitting side by side scrolling on your phones, and occasionally showing each other memes. It’s not always thrilling, but it’s real. Somewhere in that ordinariness, you realise the truth: love is just finding someone to be in the kitchen with. That simple act of sharing a space, navigating small routines together, often tells you more about connection than any grand gesture ever could.

Maybe that’s the beauty, the shift from passion to partnership, the very things people fear about long-term love: routine, domesticity, the so-called mundane are what make mature relationships stronger. There’s intimacy in running errands together, in collapsing onto the sofa after a long day, in knowing exactly how they like their tea without being asked. Anyone can hold your hand on a date night. Not everyone will hold your hand while you’re cleaning out the fridge or arguing about which brand of detergent to buy.

We romanticise the highs because they’re exciting, but love lives mostly in the lows and in-betweens. It’s not about keeping the spark alive with grand gestures every weekend. It’s about living side by side without needing a constant performance of romance. Every day life becomes a quiet language of care — they refill your water bottle at night, you remember to keep their side of the blanket tucked in, small gestures that say, I’ve got you.

Domestic love isn’t the death of romance. It’s proof of it. Waking up every day and still choosing to spend your life with someone, in all its dullness, is perhaps the most romantic thing of all. Because in the end, beyond the situationships, the stages, and the constant texting, love comes down to this: finding that one person whose presence makes even the most ordinary parts of life softer, warmer, easier — the true heart of every mature relationship.

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Akkha Bollywood ek taraf aur Emraan Hashmi ek taraf — this viral line from Bads of Bollywood has shaken the internet, and honestly, it’s about time! Emraan Hashmi, the man who once ruled every radio station and every cinema screen, is suddenly back in the spotlight. Let’s rewind to the time when Emraan didn’t just act — he defined an entire cinematic vibe. If you somehow missed these gems, consider this your sign to binge your way through the Emraan Hashmi movies that shaped a generation.

1. Murder (2004)

Before Murder, Bollywood thrillers had never looked (or sounded) this bold. With his signature intensity and that smirk, Emraan delivered a performance that was all kinds of chaotic, passionate, and unforgettable. This is the film that made him the face of forbidden love — and set the tone for the decade to come.

2. Gangster (2006)

Before toxic love stories became a trend, Gangster walked so the rest could run. Emraan’s role as a flawed lover, caught between passion and guilt, hit differently. With stellar performances and a gripping plot, this movie proved that Hashmi could do emotional devastation like no one else.

3. Jannat (2008)

Cricket, crime, and heartbreak — Jannat had it all. As the ambitious bookie chasing dreams and disaster in equal measure, Emraan made you root for him even when you knew he was doomed. It’s got the perfect blend of drama, tension, and just the right amount of 2000s-style swag.

4. Raaz: The Mystery Continues (2009) 

Only Emraan Hashmi could make a supernatural thriller feel like a love story. Raaz 2 was eerie, emotional, and packed with his signature intensity. Even the ghosts didn’t stand a chance against his charm.

5. Once Upon A Time In Mumbaai (2010)

This is Emraan in full form — confident, sharp, and magnetic. Playing the ambitious Shoaib opposite Ajay Devgn’s Sultan, he owned every frame. Stylish, dramatic, and dripping with power plays, Once Upon A Time In Mumbaai reminded everyone that the man could command the screen just as effortlessly as he did the playlist.

6. The Dirty Picture (2011)

Even in a Vidya Balan-led powerhouse, Emraan’s quiet, brooding journalist made a mark. It was a role that showed his range — subtle, layered, and deeply human. Proof that he didn’t need loud dialogues to leave an impact.

7. Shanghai (2012)

This one’s for the cinephiles. A political thriller that was way ahead of its time, Shanghai gave us a different Emraan — gritty, grounded, and brilliant. If you thought he was all romance and intensity, this film will change your mind.

Emraan Hashmi’s cameo in Bads of Bollywood reminded us of what we’d been missing  that rare mix of charm, depth, and chaos that only he could bring to the screen. So if your watchlist has been looking a little too polished lately, here’s your sign to hit rewind and dive back into the Emraan Hashmi movies that defined the golden era of 2000s Bollywood.

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When we talk about Bollywood friendships, Jai–Veeru from Sholay or the Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara trio hog all the limelight. But some lesser-hyped bonds were just as heartwarming — sometimes even more real. From sassy sidekicks to loyal emotional anchors, here’s to the underrated friendships in Hindi cinema that deserve their own anthem!

1. MC Sher & Murad – Gully Boy

The ultimate hype-man. While Murad navigated life and lyrics, MC Sher stood tall as his biggest cheerleader, no ego, no rivalry, just pure brotherhood. He didn’t just teach Murad to rhyme; he taught him to rise.

2. Naina & Aditi – Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani

Every group needs an Aditi (chaos queen) and a Naina (calm in the storm). Opposites, yet constant support for each other. From pep talks to emotional check-ins, their bond felt effortless and real.

3. The Hostel Gang – Chhichhore

College friendships hit differently. Banter, heartbreaks, unfiltered love — the gang reminded us that friends aren’t just people you laugh with; they’re family standing by you when life gets tough.

4. Kalki Koechlin & Sayani Gupta – Margarita with a Straw

A rare, honest female friendship — supportive, empathetic, and raw.. Their bond carried the emotional heart of the film.

5. Veronica & Meera – Cocktail

The real love story wasn’t romantic; it was Meera and Veronica’s messy, mellow, fiercely protective friendship. Their journey from strangers to soul sisters was raw and relatable.

6. Kabir & Shiva – Kabir Singh

Shiva stayed patient, loyal, and unshakably supportive through Kabir’s chaos. The kind of friend who won’t let you drown even when you’re determined to sink.

7. Luv & Shafeen – Mere Brother Ki Dulhan

Shafeen was the sensible voice in Luv’s rom-com rollercoaster — laughing at the mess, then helping clean it up. Every scene was a lowkey bromance masterclass.

8. Jaya & Poonam – Laapataa Ladies

Poonam welcomed Jaya into her world, and their quiet sisterhood bloomed through heartfelt conversations and mutual admiration — pure gold.

9. Ayesha & Kabir – Dil Dhadakne Do

More than siblings, they were teammates in their family circus. Playful yet profound, their dynamic showcased a modern, mature sibling friendship.

10. Vidya & Rana – Kahaani

Amid suspense, their understated bond shone. Rana’s quiet belief in Vidya highlighted trust, respect, and humanity, a friendship that wasn’t loud, but deeply felt.

While iconic duos will always rule our hearts, these lesser-sung friendships remind us that quiet, imperfect bonds often hit the hardest, real, loyal, and beautifully human.

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